Have you ever considered that the word “forgive” can be seen as âfore-give?
I think of it as âbefore-givingââgiving to another before theyâve done anything to âdeserveâ it. Perhaps that’s the only reason we’re here — to give love and kindness to everyone we meet.
“Fore-giving is merely looking beyond a personâs flaws and seeing only their spirit. Thus, we give love to others, regardless of how they look or act. This, I believe, is what God would have us do.Â
Really?? What if They’re a Jerk?!
There IS one caveat, however: Although we may focus on a personâs essential goodness, we donât have to put up with their unacceptable behavior. Even after setting boundaries, we can still see their spirit as pure and innocent.Â
When we choose to âfore-give, we expand the force of love in the world, thus dissolving fear and selfishness. We all become free, peaceful, and happy.
Give it a Try!
Just for today (and tomorrow, too!) let’s try to see the goodness in every person we encounter, and treat them with the love and respect befitting a child of God. When you ‘fore-give it make us all feel better!
P.S.  A Course in Miracles teaches that the worldâs pain is caused by our selfish egosâ excesses, and that the truth lies beyond these fearful appearancesâin the eternal spirit of goodness within each of us.Â
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Gigi Langer has been sober 35 years, and holds a PhD in Psychological Studies in Education from Stanford University. Formerly crowned the âQueen of Worry,â Gigi resigned her post many years ago and now lives happily in Florida with her husband, Peter and her cat Murphy.